Discovery · Attachment
Attachment compatibility hub
Four nervous-system strategies that drive most relationship friction — with field guides for every pairing, sorted by heat.
Styles
4
Pair guides
10
Matrix
10 pairs
01 · Styles
Start with one attachment style
Each style page explains core needs, stress responses, and how it pairs with the others.
02 · Heat map
Highest-friction pairings
Sorted by Friction-Score — not a verdict, but a signal for where repair scripts matter most.
03 · Matrix
Full attachment pair matrix
All ten unique pairings — tap any cell for a Layer-1 field guide.
04 · Anchors
Hand-crafted anchor pairs
Featured match guides with full loop, gap, and reset-kit depth.
Wait —
What's your Friction-Score with this person?
Free quiz (~3 min) maps attachment + personality type. Then jump to field guides that fit your exact blend.